i have been trying to figure out when it became acceptable to
- wear skirts and dresses so short that your secret place is almost exposed. i thought private parts were just that – private. i was at work one day and i had to tell a client who was bending down exposing everything that she needed to stand up because she was offending everyone, including myself. you know what she says to me? “oh that happens all the time.” im thinking if it happens so much, maybe you should reconsider what you are wearing.
- wear pants/jeans sagging, exposing color coordinated boxers. even worse to walk in such a way while wearing your sagging jeans to hold them up. i mean these fools have perfected that slow dip walk to prevent their pants from completely falling off. come on. this pant sagging trend started in prison because inmates were not allowed to wear belts with their prison uniforms because the belt would enable them to hang themselves, other inmates, or use as weapons. why would anyone want to emulate such a thing? and why should a law be passed to tell your foolish behind to keep your pants pulled up? oh and dont let me start on sagging skinny jeans!
- to wear sunglasses and hats indoors. there was a time (back when we had more manners) that when you entered a building you would take off your hat. it was a sign of respect. now not only is it hats it’s sunglasses as well.
- to walk into a store/transact business while checking out on a cell phone
- to not wear the proper undergarments under your clothing. ladies come on. you need to make sure you are wearing the right type of bra for your outfit and the size of your bust. i know it can be hard for those that have fuller bust lines – you want to wear the cute little halter tops, strapless tops and whatever else is out there that isnt big bust friendly. dont push you luck. minimal cleavage is acceptable in certain settings (not while looking for a job but i will talk about that later) but your areola is showing. thongs should not be seen peeking out of your pants, skirts, etc. and when you bend down, even if it is at your knees, you need to ensure that you are not flashing everyone. crack kills. visible panty lines are never acceptable. they make seamless panties, thongs, etc. and do you remember slips? they go under your skirts. and for those of you with big thighs and large posteriors, you need to invest in some undergarments with some built in control like spanx. you might think it’s attractive to have all your stuff jingling all over the place but actually it isnt. and just because something comes in your size doesnt mean you should be wearing it. just thought i would throw that out there as well.
im just saying
